family , kin , beloved .

siblings fighting over land , properties and wealth of their parents . brothers and sisters could not stand each other presence . cousins who badmouthed their own sisters . relatives who back stabbed . families who exposed the shame of each other . brothers put a spell on their own sister . uncles who cheated their own nephews .

have u heard about these kind of stories before ? do u ever wonder why is there so hard , so difficult , so much trouble when it comes to kin's relationship ? now i want u to try understand this quote .

families are like fudge - mostly sweet with a few nuts . (taken from previous post)

now ask urself which one are u ? the fudge or the nuts ? well , i am very sure that everyone will think that they are the fudge and will never be the nuts . am i correct ? i was hoping that i am the fudge when writing this entry . well the truth is we all are both of it . sometimes we were the sweet fudge but then we turned out to be the hard nuts to our family . think again people , what would happen when the nuts think that they are the fudge , and well , the fudge is soooo damn confident with themselves that they are not the nuts ? think . take ur time . and what will happen if there are any problems between them ? have u ever wonder who would apologize to whom , who would say sorry first and who would wait and see ?

but whatever it is they are still my , your and our family even if ur sister steal ur boyfriend or best friend . we as human being and families should always forgive each other including our own kin . tell urself to forgive and forget (it is very hard for me forget and very easy to forgive) . so , get this my fellow readers , even if ur family steal from us , cheat , lie , accuse , con , deceive , mislead , trick , swindle , betray , rip off , double cross , take advantage , delude and scam us , u should tell urself to forgive them because no matter what happen they still ur family , ur kin , ur beloved . and our responsibility is to maintain our kinship with them .


p/s ; i dont know why i post an entry about family but then it may be because i miss them and eid is just around the corner . soo , thats why lahh :D happy eid people !